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Post by PayJ on Wed Jan 25, 2012 3:51 pm

Alright, I'm gunna throw in the towel with my girl at the end of this week. She's just pulling the same shit she did last time.

The thing is after when we first got together had come out of a big relationship so all this shit was sp was sort of justified but this time she proposed giving it another shot and doesn't seem any different.

Never texts me and I'm fed up of starting the conversations, never availible to meet because of a wide variety of reasons. This has been going on for about 4 weeks I think.

The problem is we really do get on in person am I just being OTT? As of now we haven't spoke to eachother in a week.

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Post by Komrade Kharloth on Wed Jan 25, 2012 3:53 pm

Tits or GTFO.

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Post by PayJ on Wed Jan 25, 2012 3:57 pm

This is a semi-seriois problem because I don't want it affecting my mood on acid.

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Post by Komrade Kharloth on Wed Jan 25, 2012 4:00 pm

Well, I dunno man, just do what your gut tells you, and if you're down about it afterwards, I'd reccommend putting the acid off for a little while.

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Post by PayJ on Wed Jan 25, 2012 4:02 pm

My gut said break it off qt end of the weekend. Just wondering what y'all would do.

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Post by Furburt on Wed Jan 25, 2012 4:03 pm

I think just try to meet up with her at some point in the next week and see if you still have the spark. If she doesn't let you meet up, then she's probably trying to fob you off. If she does, and you have a good time, then maybe reevaluate.

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Post by PayJ on Wed Jan 25, 2012 4:07 pm

That's sound logic. Although I have tries like 4 times before, is it worth giving it another try?

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Post by Komrade Kharloth on Wed Jan 25, 2012 4:09 pm

Couldn't hurt.

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Post by Furburt on Wed Jan 25, 2012 4:11 pm

Well, now that you've got the idea of breaking up in your head, you might see the interaction differently.

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Post by PayJ on Wed Jan 25, 2012 4:27 pm

I'll txt her sunday then we'll see what happens.

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Post by NightSwimming on Thu Jan 26, 2012 9:44 am

It seems as though she's not so into the relationship. Her behaviour is general girl-psyche. She doesn't want to be with you, but she doesn't want to be the bad guy, the one to break it off.

I would basically track her down and make her have a one on one with you. Ask her why she's acting that way, tell her how it's making you feel and that you're having hesitations about your future if she won't communicate.

You need to talk to her face to face. She'll either turn the blame around on you somehow or there might actually be a problem that's effecting her and she doesn't know how to talk to you about it.

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Post by NightSwimming on Thu Jan 26, 2012 9:48 am

Another hint - texting will NOT work. The more you text her to no avail, the worse it is. She might just be getting annoyed at you. If she does reply and it's all vague shit or general nothingness then she doesn't actually want to be texting you. Same goes with her never starting a conversation. You need to either call her, or rock up at her house. Or text her to say you're coming over. Even if she says no, just go there anyway, at least you'll know she's home.

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Post by PayJ on Thu Jan 26, 2012 10:27 am

That's excellent advice you captured the problem brilliantly but I don't care enough about the relationship to want to do what you said so I'm just gunna break it off over text sunday. Thanks anonymous tipster.

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Post by NightSwimming on Thu Jan 26, 2012 10:32 am

Well, yeah, there's that way too. That'll be fine if you don't share many mutual friends, because you'll kind of seem like an arse.

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Post by PayJ on Thu Jan 26, 2012 10:34 am

Nawh I don't know any of her mates and I don't mind being the cunt.

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Post by MilkyFresh on Mon Feb 06, 2012 10:49 am

DID IT ALL WORK OUT AFTER ALL?

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Post by PayJ on Mon Feb 06, 2012 11:57 am

I dumped her that Thursday she never replied so yes it worked out well!

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Post by MilkyFresh on Mon Feb 06, 2012 12:06 pm

C'est la vie

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Post by PayJ on Mon Feb 06, 2012 12:13 pm

Yeah you know, I weren't all that bothered cause I expected it from her to be honest. Although it is cementing my theory of not going back out with Ex's cause it hasn't worked out to date.

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Post by MilkyFresh on Mon Feb 06, 2012 12:14 pm

Fair enough man, fair enough.

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