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Post by Colour-Scientist on Tue Jan 03, 2012 8:42 pm

It's really strange asking advice here but I need to ask people I don't know. I can't ask on The Escapist because people I know in real life read through threads sometimes and know my username so I figured I'm pretty safe asking here.

Where do I hide the bodies?

Really though, a friend I live with recently got out of a pretty shitty relationship with this guy and now she's out having fun and enjoying various antics with various people. No problems so far. For the most part it's all in good fun and everyone knows where they stand but one of the people she's, to put it bluntly, having sex with is my boyfriend's brother and he seems to like her a lot more than she thinks he does. I don't think he knows about the other guys and, from talking to him, he seems to think it means more than it does. Either way he's in a position to get fairly badly burned.

I'm not sure if I should say anything or not. He's a really good guy and I don't want to see him get hurt but I don't want to meddle either, in case I make things complicated. It could work out, it just doesn't seem likely. I don't know if I should say something to him, or even let her know that he doesn't see it as the casual thing she does.

I'd really appreciate any advice, or jeering... that's cool too.
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Post by PayJ on Tue Jan 03, 2012 8:45 pm

Unless the problem in the relationship directly involves me I just stay away and don't get involved. I will however talk shit over with people when they need shit talked over.

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Post by Colour-Scientist on Tue Jan 03, 2012 8:56 pm

PayJ567 wrote:Unless the problem in the relationship directly involves me I just stay away and don't get involved. I will however talk shit over with people when they need shit talked over.

Yeah, you're probably right. It's just kind of hard to stand by when someone could get hurt over it.
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Post by PayJ on Tue Jan 03, 2012 8:59 pm

Also does your boyfriend know? Tell him since he's family his decision will matter 10000000x more than mine.

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Post by Colour-Scientist on Tue Jan 03, 2012 9:05 pm

No, I haven't said anything to him yet. He's really protective of his brother so I was worried he'd say something straight away.

Also, what's with the PigAIDS? Seems a little harsh.
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Post by PayJ on Tue Jan 03, 2012 9:09 pm

Pig Aids?

and tell him anyway.

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Post by Colour-Scientist on Tue Jan 03, 2012 9:12 pm

Under my username. Yeah, I suppose I should.
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Post by PayJ on Tue Jan 03, 2012 9:13 pm

Cause you on 10+ posts. It's just a rank.

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Post by Colour-Scientist on Tue Jan 03, 2012 9:14 pm

Ah, that makes sense. Now I'm embarrassed. At least they're more inventive than the ones on The Escapist.
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Post by PayJ on Tue Jan 03, 2012 9:17 pm

Yeah most of us just do custom ones on account of basically all of us being admins.

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Post by Mr. Wiggles on Tue Jan 03, 2012 10:12 pm

It's a tough call but if you are going to tell him and not break his heart, subtlety is key. Although, how useful this I am not sure (if at all)

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Post by Colour-Scientist on Tue Jan 03, 2012 11:10 pm

It's all useful. I think I'm going to leave it be for a while, just in case I ruin a potentially good thing.
I wouldn't know how to say it to him in the first place. Is there a way to subtly tell someone?
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Post by PayJ on Tue Jan 03, 2012 11:11 pm



There are ways.

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Post by Mr. Wiggles on Tue Jan 03, 2012 11:18 pm

I speak from experience, it'll all end in tears either way. If he is yet to have heard it off anyone else, probably best not to go and break it to him.

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Post by Colour-Scientist on Tue Jan 03, 2012 11:28 pm

If I don't see it, it doesn't exist.
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Post by NightSwimming on Wed Jan 04, 2012 1:14 am

If I were you, I would talk to the girl, not the boyfriend's-brother guy. Just mention that he's a bit oblivious to her singleness.
OR, I would just leave it. The guy will learn a lesson etc etc.
OR, tell the guy to ask her on a date. Surely she'll see that he fancies her and she has to make a decision.

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Post by Pararaptor on Wed Jan 04, 2012 1:23 am

I'd lean towards telling him.
If you think the chances of them dating are slim, then it's better he's burned sooner rather than later- being led on is something you want to keep to an absolute minimum amount of time.
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Post by NightSwimming on Wed Jan 04, 2012 1:39 am

DATE! MAKE THEM GO ON A DATE!

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